The Grave by Porter covers many themes of the southern literature we have discussed. The importance of family and family unity is once revisited. When the Grandmother’s land was donated for charity, they made sure that their family graveyard would be moved to the main family plot as to keep everyone together. I also think that the Grandmother was the one person holding the family together. There was not much mention of any of the other family members, and at the end of the story, it seems as though Miranda and Paul also ended up going their own ways. She says how she was in a “strange city of a strange country” and that what had made her think of the day when her brother Paul killed the rabbit, it also made her think of her brother and how he used to look when he was a boy. This seems like she has not thought of him, or seen him in a long time. The Grandmother was a connection to the old south, and its beliefs, one of these being the importance of family and with the death of the grandmother, the importance for them to stick together seemed to go as well.
Porter also once again touches on gender Roles. Miranda was a tomboy growing up; this may be because the family was not very well off. She wore clothes like her brother; “She was wearing her summer roughing outfit: dark blue overalls, a light blue shirt, a hired-man’s straw hat, and thick brown sandals.” She also likes to go hunting, do what her brother does and jump in graves. This brought up a lot of controversy and scandal in their town, since it was believed that girls should not be wearing such clothes or acting in such ways. The town gossiped how wrong it was for a girl to be acting this way and blamed it on the father since they new the grandmother had “discriminated against him.” Chopin also wrote about women rebelling against the gender roles. Calixta was very sexualized, not so much into settling down and having a family as she was to having fun and flirting with men out of her social class.
I also think that this was a coming of age story for Miranda, like in Barn Burning and Oder of Verbena. She follows her brother for most of the story, but then she starts to want to go do her own things and be girly. She also is struggling with the knowledge she gains when her brother kills the pregnant rabbit and what this means to her. “She understood a little of the secret, formless intuitions in her own mind and body, which had been clearing up, taking form, so gradually and so steadily she had not realized that she was learning what she had to know.” With this, the story also steps into the family theme again. Her brother killed a family of rabbits and this is terribly upsetting to them, another set of family bonds are broken.